We Empower You to Push the Boundaries & Redefine the Rules to Create an Authentic Life of inner Happiness and Success

This is especially for you if:

You have a stable job, but you still feel struggling, and your goals are still far-fetched dreams.

You are surrounded by people you love, but deep down, you are lonely and emotionally absent, and you crave a deeper, more authentic relationship with your family and friends.

You seem healthy, but deep down, you are stressed, pressured, nervous, restless, and tense.

You present yourself as confident and successful, but deep down, you are plagued with feelings of impending danger, panic, doom, or being exploited.

Your life is like swimming in a sea of anxious thoughts.

You know that you’re holding yourself back from greater joy and success, but you can’t really tell what’s the root cause.

Well, You are in the right place.

"There are two primary choices in life:
To accept conditions as they exist or to accept the responsibility for changing them."
-Denis Waitley
You are the only one who can decide to make a difference in your life.
Let's show you How.

Hi, I am SJ,
I am Your Transformation Coach

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For those who don't know me, I have been a people's mentor for more than 15 years.
 
 After working with different people, I developed the "ITT"- Identify, Translate, and Transform- methodology. I have used ITT to transform people in various conditions from where they are now, stuck, to where they love, enjoy, and be above the demise of life. With it, I have helped people be free from years of trauma, grief, chronic pain, indecisiveness, and emotional baggage. ITT also helped people become more present, understanding, and loving in their relationships.

Most importantly, I have helped people find their Authentic selves.
 
Join me to have a chance to heal the body, mind, soul, and emotions towards inner happiness and sail the waters you always dream of sailing.

Click Here to Know More about Me

Read What Sara Had To Say after her 6 Weeks Transformation

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Brother Suleyman (SJ) has helped me in my healing process to deal with the past trauma of having had an apathetic, indifferent, self-consuming and all-consuming abusive mother and absent father who was not without serious flaws either. The lack or absence of proper upbringing, to say the least, nurturance and love has resulted in a series of more traumatizing social experiences, all of which have produced scars and wounds which have never healed throughout the years.

When people say that “time heals everything”, that has not been the case for me. On the contrary, these wounds fester and I was fixated on past events. I see and hear things through the “filter of my wounds” (quote by an unknown writer) and I often misread people’s kindness and good intentions, projecting my own darkness unto their words and actions.

Everyone meets nasty people but for me, without the proper life skills or support and loving-kindness by my parents, I have not been able to handle humiliation in all its forms. I carry those episodes and my own too many abused episodes to heart, storing them deep within so much so that they rot in my inner being, pouring toxins into my flesh and blood to be replayed over and over again, fuelling my anger and rage.
The overall result is low self-worth and low self-esteem which somehow evolves (or devolves) into a vicious cycle of self-loathing. I am 49 years old this year.

By the all-encompassing Mercy and Compassion of Allah swt, He has, in His infinite Wisdom, brought brother Suleyman (SJ) to this part of the world as an extension of His Rahmah (mercy). Brother Suleyman brought me to the past timelines to untangle the knots of past traumas.

There have been many sent by all-Merciful, the all- Compassionate and each has left a lasting positive impact to this wounded self. However, like a jigsaw puzzle whereby each has its own designated place, the one piece to help complete the healing is in the form of Brother Suleyman, Masha Allah!

Alhamdulillah, through him, HE swt has helped me find closure.

Sara

Singapore

Is it Mind, Body, Spirit, or Emotions?

To have a long-lasting transformation, you must be able to heal and be free from self-hindering patterns that you have accumulated over the years. Unfortunately, most of us do not understand that our emotions and past life experiences cause our physical and psychological problems. This is because our image of selves is due to cumulative experiences we have encountered over time, from the moment we were born to the current moment. If your experiences are not good, they hurt our body, mind, and spirits, creating wounded selves, suffering from distorted thoughts, limiting beliefs and self-sabotaging behaviours.

Psychologically, our childhood experiences are responsible for how we react and interact with the world today. You might have experienced adverse childhood experiences (ACE) such as parents fighting, being abandoned, threatened, abused, or bullied. You might have even experienced your loved ones passing away at a very young age or parents divorcing, and you are caught in the middle of a painful divorce, not knowing what to do.

Sometimes it is not ACE at play. It is emotionally charged events (ECE) / Significant Emotional Events (SEE) that you experience in different parts of your life. Things like not being understood, appreciated, looked down upon, not being recognised, heartbreaks, and even inauthentic actions of people aimed at exploiting you. 

ACEs and ECEs/SEEs affect your nervous system, hormonal system, pituitary gland (the master gland), and total metabolism. In turn, you are left with a heap of problems, ranging from physical, like chronic diseases and pain, to psychological, such as anxiety, depression, and mood disorders, that seem impossible to heal and live the expected life of your dreams.


Our coaching is designed to address the underlying causes spread all over your life and develop new, better ways (if needed) to live your dream life.

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What You Can Avoid

The longer you wait, the harder life becomes as you will continue to struggle with all or some of the following:

  • Negative Thoughts
  • Lack of Confidence and low Self esteem
  • Self-Sabotage
  • Ongoing Pain
  • Worsening Health Conditions
  • Emotional Baggage
  • Insecurities
  • Unhealed Trauma, Anxiety, Depression, and Stress
  • Feeling your not worthy and good enough

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What You Will Gain

Gift yourself this healing opportunity now, and I will hold your hand to resolve the root causes of your problems and suffering and create your path to success by achieving:

  • Contentment with Life
  • More Confidence
  • Self-Awareness, Self-Love, and Self-Appreciation
  • Free and in control of your past and future
  • Energy, Calm, and Clarity
  • More Vibrant Health
  • Meaningful and Purpose driven life
  • Inner-happiness

Einstein Once said, “Everyone is a genius.”
If you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its entire life believing it is stupid.

Understand Our Methodology,The ITT

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Identify

Awareness precedes change, and you cannot work on something you do not understand.
In the first step, we create a very safe space for you to be able to express your situation and how it is affecting your life now.
We understand that a single issue can be presented differently from one person to another. You have a unique life experience and all that comes with it. So, we will find the very first time this problem was ever an issue for you.
After finding clarity, the root cause, and considering everything in your life, we identify and name the problem and its impact on the body and mind. This brings clarity and is a stepping stone to designing ways to resolve the issue once and for all.

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Translate

The key principle of transformation is that all life events, either good or bad, serve a specific purpose. The problems happen when we do not understand the intended purpose of these life events.
In this stage, using NLP, neuroscience, positive psychology, and personal development, we guide you to dig deeper and find a deeper meaning, positive and empowering lessons, and wisdom behind all those moments.
The most significant transformation happens when we understand the purpose beyond our comprehension, which helps us better understand our current situation. And it is at this moment we create a breakthrough, a significant shift that will be responsible for the rest of our transformed lives.

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Transform

Create your dream life, grow the wings you didn't even know you had and create a life of happiness, success, fulfilment, meaning and direction.
Define the new rules you will live by, and rise above the rubble to be the most authentic human being.
Be free, In control, and On top of your game physically, emotionally, and spiritually.
We will help you develop the plan and implement it to create and make your dream life a reality.

Here is another beautiful transformation story from Ameli.
Ameli is a Doctor, ADHD and Career & Direction coach. After her breakthrough session with me, she could resume studying for her New Zealand GP certification exam, which was difficult following her mother's passing in the hospital where she was working before.
The following is what Ameli said after using ITT a couple of days after her Personal Breakthrough Session.

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​Today, right now. Actually, right now has been the very first time in a long time that I have not cried, felt upset or even just teared up a little bit. I have not had ANY negative emotions when reading about the heart (cardiology), not even when I read a case about what my mum had which was Dilated cardiomyopathy.

I actually feel at peace within myself and with the circumstances surrounding her passing. I have this deeper peace and understanding, knowing that there was literally nothing else I could have done to help her. Unless of course, I found her a new heart, in which case the surgeons would have probably declined because she was already at high risk. I did my best to give her a peaceful passing and she will always be my queen.

Realizing that I am now - FINALLY - at peace with all these is huge... a MASSIVE transformation. So I just wanted to say thank you SJ. This is the first time I can actually study these topics, and process them really quickly and without any delays.

Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

Amelí Anton

A Doctor, ADHD Coach, Career and Direction Coach, New Zealand

It is easy to take straightforward options. It's easy to rationalise the way you are today. It is easy to find many reasons to support your ground and be the same person you are today.
Maybe we blame time, finances, family, our past experiences and our responsibilities. But remember, when you keep arguing with your limitations, you get to keep them.
Opportunities don't just happen; you create them.
You are worthy of transformation.

More Success Stories

Only those willing to go so far will possibly know how far one can go. To be successful we need to admit and change the way we think, act, and even how to approach life in general.
Here are some of our clients who were able to achieve much after deciding to step out of their comfort zones.

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Amini Suwedi
Tanzania

"The best way I could explain the session with coach SJ is that it was a journey of the inner self. My initial wasn't to resolve anything but to understand myself, but our sessions helped me do both.

The things I learned, I now apply in my everyday life and I'm really grateful for that. I would definitely recommend a session with the coach for a number of reasons, not only physio-psychological but also 'spiritual'."



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Azua Anuar
Singapore

"I had sciatica pain that radiated from my lower back and down to the right calf. I was in excruciating pain. I've tried chiro & acupuncture and slowly developed anxiety attacks. I was introduced to this therapy by a friend. I thought I was going to have a ruqyah (A form of Islamic Healing) session.

A little bit of info regarding therapy from my point of view.

It's a therapeutic approach that focuses on awareness, expression & acceptance. By being given the skills to self-regulate your own emotions by noticing & naming what you feel, you create a space for yourself to positivity by tapping & expressing.

I felt that the weight on my shoulder has been lifted off "

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Afiqah
Singapore

"It was an amazing session as I get to go through my past and the most significant one of all was the one I have always remembered all my life. I never knew we could actually go back in that manner and change the way we see things in a positive way.

I’m so blessed and thankful to have gone through this session as it helped a lot with my decision-making and made me clear with what I really want and stop thinking of what others want out of me or from me. "



You are also worthy of Transformation

But, to achieve next-level results, you must be ready to adapt to the next-level mindset and attitude.
It is especially difficult when everyone around you settles for easy, average, and mediocre results. It is even complicated when those little voices inside you are constantly nagging that you - "don't be great", "don't be too ambitious",  "you won't fit in", "you will never be accepted", "you are not good enough", "you will fail miserably", and "It's better to just be the person you are, and you will be okay".

If there is only one thing I want you to know when you leave here, it is that you can change your reality and how you approach the world. You can create the life of your dream.

Fortunately, you are here, and this is how...

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Book Your Clarity Call

Please take this opportunity so that we can help you with clarity and advice on the best strategy forward as per your situation.
The 30-minute call is designed so that we can provide clarity, know each other, and know my coaching style.
This call is worth $99, but You Pay Nothing. You never know. We may become friends for life. 





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Get Ready For the Call

I may send you an intake form if we need some more clarity so that I can get ready for your clarity call. I want to make the 30 minutes you spend with me the most valuable time, even if we are not going to work together.
Prepare for your call, and be in the mood for clarity and transformation.









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Begins the Transformation

We will advise the best way forward for you and how to reach your goal in the shortest timeframe. 
If we work together, we promise to take you further, unleash the person you were always meant to be, and begin your path toward your dream life.
If we are not a good match, you will have clarity. You will also know where you should begin in creating your dream life and rise above your emotional and physical pain, belief, and systems that have been hindering you from having a fulfilled life.

Our Most Popular Programs Packages

Empowered Aliveness

Conquer your fear, heal trauma, and be authentic self in six week

S$500/ session

This package is good for you if you wish to:


Rise above their traumatic past

Let go of limiting beliefs

Let go of sabotaging patterns

Experience Physical and Emotional Freedom

Build the Dream life and irrepressible goals and visions









Book Your Call Now For A Chance to get up to 60% OFF our programs.

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From Uncertainty to Productivity

Find your purpose, direction and motivation toward your Dream Life

S$500 / session

This is our most popular transformation package, and is good for you if wish to:


Design your dream life, fiding your purpose, and create your goals

Align your internal and external environment to your dream life

Heal your chronic pain (more than three months) and find the root causes of your poor and chronic conditions









Book Your Call Now For A Chance to get up to 60% OFF our programs.



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From Sofa to So Far

Go deeper and resolve the root cause to gain your optimal health and lose your stubborn and chronic weight once and for all

S$500 / session

This is the way to go beyond just diet and movement to find your perfect solution to permanent optimal health and irreversible weight loss.


Three 1-on-1 VIP calls to unearthing and addressing the root cause factors contributing to the inability to lose weight

Learn the only effective techniques for achieving long-lasting weight loss and optimal health (9 sessions of live group coaching)

Get Unlimited support, all the way towards your total empowerment, control, and freedom

Book Your Call Now For A Chance to get up to 60% OFF our programs.

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Personal Breakthrough Session (PBS)

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PBS is only for the most committed and ready to change now. If you know what you want but are struggling to reach there, then PBS is for you.

It is an opportunity to resolve years of problems within a matter of a day/days.

In a PBS, we carefully design the session to give an equivalent of a year of therapy in about 3 to 5 hours.

At the end of the session, we will completely transform you. You will be ready to tackle the world and kick your goals. You will achieve the utmost clarity, devise an action plan, and clear all the roadblocks that would have prevented you from achieving your goal.

We accept PBS by application only; we accept only three people in a month.

Act quickly, book your call now, and let's set this up for you and be ahead of everyone else.

I'm Ready For a Breakthrough

You Asked We Answered

Here are the most asked questions by our clients. If, just in case, you were not able to find the answer you are looking for, please do not hesitate to contact us, and We will be glad to give you the answer in the shortest timeframe possible.


Each session will last between 60 to 90 minutes. As a coach, my biggest priority is giving you the best outcome after each session so you can reach your goals as fast as possible.

We prefer to conduct our sessions via video conferencing software, as we attend to clients worldwide.

However, we understand that some people need a face to face interaction. When required, we can accommodate the client's request and find the most suitable area for the best result.

The only thing you need to do is ask.

In each session, we will address a significant event, the one thing that would be able to knock all others down.

We find clarity and create a perfect environment to create new habits, patterns, beliefs, and behaviours necessary for success, after solving the old strategies that are not working right now.

We are going to incorporate a variety of tools from neuroscience and psychology.

We use the techniques and tools derived from NLP, Positive Psychology, Neuroscience of Change, and EFT/TFT.

After a session, we may agree on different small practices that would generally not take more than 30 minutes of your day to help you condition the changes we have just made.

These might be auditing your environment, thought patterns, triggers, and how you generally engage with the world differently. 

It depends.

Some will see results instantly; others will see results after they have gone to sleep, and others will only notice a shift in their lives ranging from a week to a few months after the session. The very noticeable thing is that most of our clients will see and perceive themselves differently from the person they used to be.

The differences are mainly due to differences in the structural organisation of the subconscious mind, how long you have been holding that problem, what are the secondary gains of the problem you're trying to change, and conviction and readiness to change.

Some results are just incremental and cannot happen overnight. People with chronic weight might not see changes in their weight immediately. They may, however, notice some small behavioural changes like improved eating, better stress management, and better coping skills.

In general, you may see a shift in your mood, readiness, thought patterns, and overall tendency to take ownership, and sometimes you will feel that you are different, in a good way, even though you don't know how you are different yet.

Yes, all the results we help you with are permanent to keep unless you decide to go back to your old self, which is unlikely.

Actually, there is no single person who completes their transformation journey and reverts to their older selves.

They are just becoming more successful, happier, empowered, and in control of their lives.

Very Different.

What separates me from others is that I don't have a one solution fits all approach. I believe every circumstance is different and challenging to the person experiencing it, no matter how insignificant it seems to others. I also do not assume that I understand your suffering, as your experience is uniquely yours. But, I will use all my experience to find a long-lasting solution to your problem.

I am bringing my ability to find solutions to an entirely new problem in as short a time as possible.

As a biologist, I have spent years training to find answers to the unknown and using these skills; I won't rest until I have a clear solution for your problem. It usually does not take me that long.

My mission is to liberate people from the situations holding them back. And in doing this, I dedicate my time to resolving issues and teaching them how to prevent similar situations from happening again. This way, they are empowered and do not depend on me for future problems.

As most of the coaching is short-term, in 1 to 12 weeks, I usually teach my clients techniques and tools that will help them to continuously refine their results until the day they reach their goals, or they can even help their children and spouses as they may have the same kind of problem.

In short, I view myself as a teacher, not just a coach, and every session is done with you and not for you; unless you only want us to fix the problem. This means we design and make changes together so that you know the full extent of every technique used and why I have used it. 

Finally, I wish to help 1,000,000 people in my lifetime. This means I empower my clients to use the techniques I develop so that they can pass them to their loved ones and relatives who can use them even when I am not in proximity. I design my techniques to be timeless.

No.

We have clients from all religious backgrounds.

The most important thing we find from our clients, irrespective of their religious experience, is the increase in their spiritual strength days after our coaching.

For coaching to have extraordinary results, it needs to have two things; commitment and conditioning.

Our coaching will help anyone ready for change, committed, and prepared to put in the small works (even though difficult) necessary for their transformation.

Nothing will stop you from achieving your dream life.

As a coach, my role is to initiate and put you on the transformation journey by clearing any barrier that might be there to make your goals a reality. As a client, your goal is to make the conditioning and changing gears o that you can incorporate changes into habits and drive safely to your goals and dreams.

The phrase, nothing has worked before, is limiting in itself. When I asked, "What is everything that you have tried that didn't work, and for how long?" you find very variable answers, most of which are unclear. There are clear answers sometimes, where they give us a stepping stone to creating a better way just for their situation.

Also, you haven't tried me, and my methodologies. :)

Neurolinguistic Programming (NLP) is a blueprint of the subconscious mind.

It was developed in the 1950s as a way to use clients' responses to help them change their behaviours and patterns.

In a Nutshell, NLP uses language and principles of communication to help people change their thoughts, feelings, and behaviours.

The goals of NLP are to help the client understand that how one views the world affects how one operates in the world and that changing the thoughts and behaviour patterns that have not proven beneficial in the past is necessary.

The tools and techniques in NLP help the client reach the desired results much faster, as they help resolve barriers in the subconscious mind. Barriers
 prevent the required changes from happening and presenting themselves as limiting beliefs, Self-sabotaging behaviours, internal voices, overall mood, and how someone carries and views themselves.

Apart from NLP techniques, we also use Science of Change and Positive psychology techniques and Timeline (Gestalt) Therapy techniques.

From time to time, I may use Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT), Thought Field Therapy (TFT), Somatic Experiencing, Energy and Movement Based Therapies, and Hypnotherapy,  Story-based therapy.

When we use hypnotherapy, we only induce very shallow hypnosis, allowing some of the techniques we use to be much more effective. We sometimes use Hypno-EFT, where we use EFT in a state of hypnosis. The hypnosis we induce in Hypno-EFT is the same one we experience all over the day, in different moments.

Did you know that your mind goes into hypnosis from time to time, all over the day, without even realising it? Well, we just use that small part and not deep hypnosis.

Reading books is okay and highly recommended to everyone. But most people either do not finish them or they do not implement the books' teachings to be able to notice changes they need and want. They end up reading books after books without profound results.

Suppose you are committed enough, constantly implementing the lessons from the books and refining your habits and growth plans. In that case, there are massive chances that you will achieve what you are looking for, even though it may take longer.

The coach, however, is not a book; s/he is dynamic and adaptable. The coach adds a volume of experience and case studies you cannot get from free content and, sometimes, from books.

The coach is invaluable. He gets you started, support you, and holds you accountable, even when you are not responsible for yourself.

A good coach will understand your suffering, but the book and free content won't. The coach will constantly personalise your development journey and update it as necessary to suit your life challenges and difficulties so that you can reap the reward of your transformation journey.

Sometimes, life situation change and the book you are implementing becomes obsolete, as most books are written on a single theme. You will have to find another book or sweep through free content to find the relevant solution for your new situation. But coaches are horned with principles that will help you find the solution the fastest way possible. 

In short, coaches help to reduce the time needed to reach your goals. One of my coaches (I have more than one) ever told me that "knowledge is cheap, but implementation is expensive." You pay expenses either using time currency or financial currency.

Those who are very serious with their transformation hire coache
s.

Every person can benefit from coaching, even though they have no apparent problem. And so you definitely can benefit from being coached by me. Some of my clients have cancer, some have dementia, and some have chronic pain, and all benefit from my coaching.

In fact, Scientific evidence shows the advantage of mind-body therapies and coaching, especially mindfulness, behaviour, wellness, and emotional coaching, in reducing the severity of the diseases and even helping the healing process.

One of the most recent articles in the "From Microscope to Clinical Application" found brain can interfere with immune function and therapies that involve behavioural/cognitive reduction of stress, helping in the healing of that patient.

Another article from the journal of Psychosomatic Medicine found in a controlled randomised clinical study for people living with HIV; there was a significant reduction in the viral load for those who were receiving cognitive or behavioural based therapies in addition to their standard treatment as opposed to those who received only conventional HIV treatments.

In general, our body affects our mind, and our mind affects our bodies, and for you to have long-term healing benefits from whatever ailment, you must heal both the mind and the body.


No progress can be made until you know exactly where you are...

We are constantly in battle with different forces inside and outside ourselves. And in the process, we may lose our ways or lose ourselves. The most important gift you can give yourself for your success and happiness is to have clarity of where you are and to transform yourself into the best version for you to live your dream life.
Not your job or life situations make you unsuccessful in different life domains; the internal issues, deep in the Mind, are subconsciously holding you back.
Transform your inner self to transform your life.
"The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago; the second best time is today"-Old Chines Proverb.

Take this chance and gift yourself a transformation journey.Book Our Free Clarity Call (Worth $99).You Deserve Transformation.

Help Me With Clarity

“The mind, once stretched by a new idea, never returns to its original dimensions.”
― Ralph Waldo Emerson

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